Chasing After the Wind

“Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.” . . . All things are wearisome, more than one can say. The eye never has enough of seeing, nor the ear it’s fill o hearing. What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. . . . I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.-Ecclesiastes 1: 2, 8-9, 14-

Have you ever wondered why so many people are bored today, during an age of technological wonders, of over 200 TV channels? Science writer, Winifred Gallagher believes that boredom is largely a recent problem that is absent from many other cultures. She describes a Western anthropologist who has studied the bushmen of Namibia for years and has become fluent in their language. He has attempted over the years to come up with an equivalent word for “boredom” in their language, but there is a disconnect; they don’t understand the concept. The closest they can come to it is tired. Our word boredom, didn’t appear in English until the Industrial Age — about the time modern entertainment began to evolve.
Wise King Solomon may not have had a word for boredom, either, but he portrayed it well with words like meaningless and vanity — “a chasing after the wind.” Go outside and take 3 minutes to chase the wind. Go ahead. Are you back? How’d that go for you? What do you have to show for it?
Solomon made a relentless pursuit of pleasure and entertainment. He denied himself nothing. He enjoyed comedy and laughter, parties and projects. And at the end of it all, his conclusion was that it was all meaningless. He seems to say, “It just wears me out.”
Christian writer A. W. Tozer observed that the more vibrant our inner lives are, the less we need from the outside — that is, the more active we are in mind and spirit, the less we need to fall back on external media and other input. The apostle Paul put it this way: “Offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God — this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:1-2). We were made for God, and until He is our greatest pleasure, all the other pleasures of this life will lead to emptiness.

DENYING TODAY
Think about these revealing questions: What are your favorite forms of entertainment? Where and when have you exhibited the most passion and excitement? What kinds of entertainment media have you found to be the most addictive? Decide now that the next time you feel bored, instead of turning on the TV or picking up your smartphone or tablet, you’ll do something to renew your mind. (Here’s a hint: Worship and the Word are both good places to start.)

Whining or Worshiping?

“Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure children of God, without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” (Philippians 2:14-15)

Observation: A complaining spirit infects our everyday environment. At work, at home, on social media, it can be contagious. Your candidate doesn’t win the election, so you blame the other party for all of society’s woes. Your team doesn’t win the tournament, and the referees were biased or the coach was incompetent. Your kids don’t clean up after themselves. Your husband is insensitive. Your job is too demanding and the pay isn’t fair. Your lunch wasn’t prepared correctly. The winter was too long, but then the heat of summer comes too soon. My guess is that while reading these examples, you found yourself easily agreeing, maybe even jumping to your own list of complaints!
Even God’s people can easily slip into a complaining attitude, because, after all, it’s not really a sin, is it? Complaining sure seems relatively harmless compared to murder, adultery, or theft. Grumbling now and then doesn’t affect others like lying or jealousy.
But what we complain about reveals what really matters to us. Our grumbling has a way of exposing where our hearts are centered. Whining, in many ways, is the polar opposite of worshiping our Lord. Worship is when we glorify God for who He is and acknowledge what He has done for us, but whining is ignoring who God is and forgetting what He has done for us.
So, Paul says, in effect, You want to be blameless? You want to live a pure life? You want your life to shine like a bright star on a cloudless night? Then don’t grumble. Don’t argue or complain. Instead of whining, try worshiping.

DENYING TODAY
You won’t be able to do this without God’s help, but just for today, make this commitment: As a follower of Jesus, do everything without grumbling or complaining. When you are tempted to whine, turn it into a moment of worship. When tempted to complain, respond instead with thanksgiving. Read a psalm, pray a prayer, turn up the worship music, and thank God for all that He has already done for you. (For a further challenge, try this for a week. Enlist a few close friends or family members to try it with you and hold you accountable.)

The Time Crunch

Our days are like identical suitcases – all the same size – but some people can pack more into them than others.

Everyone receives an equal supply of time. The only difference between us is in the way we invest it. Each week brings us 168 golden hours. We spend approximately 56 hours for sleep and recuperation. We spend approximately 24 hours for eating and personal duties. We spend approximately 50 hours for earning a living.
We have approximately 38 hours left to spend just as we wish. But how do we spend them?
Recreation
Family
God and Church
Education
Physical Fitness

Five hours a day – 38 hours a week X 52 = 1976 hours each year!
Nearly 2000 hours a year, 10 years = 20,000 hours!

The heart of time management is your willingness and ability to maximize God’s gift of time, not hyperventilating with calendars, clipboards, and stop-watches.

God has given us the precious gift of time, of which we must be good stewards. The management of time must be our #1 priority. Without some organization of our day, it will waste away without purpose, and drain away without accomplishment.

Two Foundational Biblical Principles For Time Management:

Principle #1 – Realize that you have enough time to do all that God wants you to do.

Read Matthew 6:30-34.
Too much to do? Not enough time? Seek God’s kingdom and righteousness first; that will set your priorities straight. If you truly can’t get everything done, perhaps you are doing some things that God doesn’t need you to do! The key is to say yes to the right things, which is why we must always seek God first.

Principle #2 – Come apart & rest or you’ll come apart.

Following John the Baptist’s beheading:
Read Matthew 14:13.

Following the feeding of the 5000:
Read Matthew 14:23.

The best remedy for a schedule that is out of control is to get alone with God and practice principle #1.

My Time With God

Preparation Time
Read Ecclesiastes 3:11-12.

Check the areas of time that you struggle with the most, and make a note as to why:
( ) Time at Work:
( ) Time With Family:
( ) Time With God:
( ) Time With Friends:

Waiting Time
During your waiting time, let God…

Love You.
“God I feel your love today, and thank you for the gift of time.”

Search You.
“God, you have permission to reveal any poor usage of time in my life.”

Show You.
“God, is there anything that I need to know as I enter this day?”

Confession Time
Read Ecclesiastes 1:14.

Confess the areas in which you have wasted God’s precious gift of time:

Bible Time
We can never pray out of God’s will when we pray God’s Word.

…Read Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 slowly a couple of times.
…Close your eyes and allow a main truth to surface in your heart.
…Pray the Scripture and allow God to minister to you.

Meditation Time
After praying the Scriptures, write down the thoughts that God has impressed upon your mind:

Intercession Time – Praying for Others
Begin this time with a prayer of blessing and thanksgiving for the people for whom you will now intercede. Pray that God would give them insight to their own stewardship of time.
Name Request

Petition Time – Praying for Yourself

How to Petition God Properly
Talk to Him about the “little things”
Be honest with God
Pray “Thy Will Be Done”

Prayer Requests

Application Time
The smallest obedient act is better than the greatest intention.

Q: What is the main thing that God has impressed on me today?

Q: What am I going to do about it?

Steps To Take In My Obedience to God This Week:

My Goal: To implement the above steps in the next 7 days.

Faith Time
Faith is our positive response to what God has said. Spend a few moments praying through your eyes of faith. Tell God the positive things you see happening because of His goodness!

Praise and Thanksgiving Time

Praise God by recognizing WHO HE IS!
Thank God by recognizing WHAT HE HAS DONE!

This Week’s Memory Verse (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

This Week’s Time Alone With God

Monday – This Lesson

Tuesday – Identify your main time wasters.

Wednesday – Talk to God about His priorities for your life.

Thursday – Meditate on John 17:4.
(How could Jesus have been finished? There were still the blind, the lame, the sick, and the unconverted! He knew His mission and He had finished,)

Friday – Review your memory verse (Ecclesiastes 3:1),

Slow Down And Fast

“When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show others they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” (Matthew 6:16-18)

I grew up going to potluck dinners. If the term potluck is unfamiliar to you, think of it as the “white elephant gift exchange” concept applied to church wide fellowship dinners. It’s a meal where each family brings something to eat and sets it out on the table for everyone to share. You never know what you’re going to get. A lot of it is not that desirable, like the Jell-o salad that consists of leftovers such as beets, tuna fish, Spam, Velveeta cheese (which isn’t cheese), and peanut butter mixed together with Jell-o. Or the marinated carrots that someone always brings. I always begged my mom to take something good, like a bucket of chicken or her Cherry/cream cheese dessert. I remember many church events that centered around these meals. But I can’t remember a single one that celebrated fasting.
To fast is to voluntarily abstain from food for spiritual purposes. But fasting has been neglected in the church for a long time. When was the last time you heard a sermon about it? (Maybe the church is fasting from fasting. I don’t think that counts.) It is mentioned in the Bible as many as 77 times, and although God does not command us to fast, Jesus seems to assume that we will. (Notice that He says “when,” not “if.”)
Fasting is not the same as a crash diet. It’s goal isn’t a “quick cleanse” or rapid weight loss. It is not meant to make us appear more spiritual to others or look better in the sight of God. Instead, it is an expression of grief over loss or sorrow for sin. Fasting displays mastery over our bodies and tangibly demonstrates our dependence on God. For thousands of years, God’s people have fasted to empower their prayers or to ensure safety. In the New Testament, believers fasted to seek God’s guidance. Jesus Himself, fasted 40 days and nights in the wilderness before setting out on His public ministry.
Fasting simply brings us closer to Him. By denying ourselves what our bodies often crave the most, we dedicate our entire worship in love to the God who sustains us.

DENYING TODAY
Privately declare a fast — not in order to fit into your skinny jeans or swimsuit, or even as a test of your discipline. Fast for the express purpose of spending time with God. Choose a water-only fast for one day or three days, or fast from specific foods for the next week or two. Pray that you will have a greater hunger for God and His Word than for the food of this world.

Soul Food

“Whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”-1 Corinthians 10:31-

Eating is good. (Did I just hear an “Amen”?) Yet every gift God gives us can be twisted into a lure to pull us away from Him.
The gods of food work overtime in the United States. You walk into a restaurant, an environment filled with stimulating sights and smells. The host hands you a menu so thick it has to be divided into chapters, illustrated with mouthwatering pictures. Nobody goes into such a place simply for bodily sustenance. It’s all about satisfaction, isn’t it? We are looking for a little slice of heaven. In fact, we seem to invoke heaven or spirituality quite often where food is concerned: “This cake is heavenly,” “This pie is out of this world,” “soul food,” “angel food cake,” “nectar of the gods.”
Food can be just as much a god for people who would never eat anything except organic health foods. Some people build their lives around diet & exercise, obsessed with outward appearance and enticed to worship their own image.
Whether you eat to indulge or eat to be healthy, either way, you can be drawn into serving something other than the God who created the food itself. In the Scriptures, food is always a gift from heaven. God Himself showed Adam and Eve the great bounty of good things He had prepared for them to eat. He designed us to enjoy eating, not simply to eat as a matter of sustenance. He created a vast spectrum of foods and flavors. He even tells us, “Go, eat your food with gladness.” (Ecclesiastes 9:7).
But we’ll never be fully satisfied until we find our satisfaction in Him. Jesus calls Himself “the bread of life” (John 6:35). And when we come to Him, we’ll never go hungry; when we believe in Him, we won’t thirst again. Even though we can’t see it, He is the food we’re really looking for.

DENYING TODAY
Next time you sit down for a meal, say grace with fresh appreciation for what God has provided. Deny food power over you; it can’t assuage your guilt, and it won’t provide any lasting comfort. Instead, acknowledge that God Himself has provided everything we’ll ever need — physically and spiritually — and be grateful.

King of the Hill

“The Philistine commanders continued to go out to battle, and as often as they did, David met with more success than the rest of Saul’s officers, and his name became well known.”
-1 Samuel 18:30-

When I was young, we played a game called King of the Hill every day at recess. It’s a pretty simple concept, really: All the boys would push and shove each other to the ground, and when the whistle blew, whoever was left standing on the hill was crowned king. My guess is that most schools have outlawed such games these days because of the sheer brutality. But I loved playing this game. You know why? Because as a youngster, I was the same size as I was when I became an adult. I was the undefeated, undisputed king of the hill.
I enjoyed my reign as King until the day a new student joined our class who was bigger and taller than I was. Worst of all, this student was a girl. And not just any girl. She wore cowboy boots. She made fun of the other girls in our class. She ate glue. And sure enough, at recess that day, she wanted to play King of the Hill. She dug her boots in the ground and came right after me. And when the whistle blew that day, I had been dethroned by a girl; I was no longer King.
I’ve discovered that King of the Hill isn’t just a childhood game we play. It often becomes our life’s pursuit: Do whatever it takes to make it to the top, and stay there. The appeal of success seems obvious. It’s about position and authority, prestige and clout. It’s about having the right seat at the table, the right space in the parking lot, the right title on the business card. It’s about getting the crown, the trophy, the promotion, or the award. Success is finding out how the score is kept, and then scoring.

The word success is rarely used in Scriptures, but one of the closest biblical equivalents is the word blessed. Even today, we tend to use that word as the humbler way of saying, “I’m successful.” A guest comes by and says, “You have a beautiful home. I love your sports cars and your yacht.” And you smile modestly and say, “I’ve been blessed.”
But think about the difference between those two words. Success is the word we use to speak of something we have accomplished ourselves. Blessed indicates not that you have done something, but that something has been done for you. Let me put it this way: Success is when we achieve; blessed is when we receive. If we say, “I’m successful,” we are giving the glory to ourselves. When we say, “I’m blessed,” we are giving the glory to God.

DENYING TODAY
True success is hearing Jesus say to you one day, “Well done, good and faithful servant!” (Matthew 25:21, 23). How will He measure your success? Read Jesus’ statements of blessing from His Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5:1-12. Can you resonate with any of those whom Jesus calls “blessed” (the poor in spirit, those who mourn, etc.)? Set a timer for just 3 minutes. Write down as many blessings as you can think of in that time. Then pray, thanking God for the blessings he has lavished on you.

Dead Elephant In The Room

“I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do, I do not do, but what I hate, I do. . . . As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me.” (Romans 7:15, 17)

Jesus slaughtered sin on the cross. But sin’s dead carcass still occupiers a lot of living space, and it stinks to high heaven. Like the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about, it exercises a powerful influence over everything. It is a powerful rival to righteousness.
I resonate with Paul’s lament in Romans 7. Just when I think I have gained victory over some sinful response, I get a powerful whiff of death again. Reeling and gagging, I too often find myself doing the very thing I said I wouldn’t do. And I hate it.
Hating is a good start, because God hates it too. His Holy Spirit is called “holy” (set apart, consecrated to God) for a reason. And he always stands ready to help me get back on my feet for another round. We may be down, but we are not out. God has promised us all the help we need to achieve victory over sin. If we ask His Spirit, He will disarm the beast within us. He will drain the life out of our sinful habits, one by one.
Many people get frustrated in their efforts to follow Jesus. They’re trying as hard as they can to “get it right,” and they don’t understand why they are having such a hard time. They determine again to be faithful, and hate themselves for being so inconsistent. One person sent me an e-mail recently that read, “Thanks so much for this challenge to go from fan to follower. I am trying every day to become a follower of Jesus.” I appreciated that, but I can tell you that he is going to fail because “trying every day” simply isn’t enough. Changing just one word in that e-mail would make all the difference in the world. It needs to read, “I am DYING every day to become a follower of Jesus.”

DENYING TODAY
Read Romans 7:15-25. In what areas of your life can you identify with Paul? What good do you want to do, but don’t? What sin do you want to distance yourself from, but can’t? Write them down, if you dare. Then surrender your list to God in prayer, thanking Him for rescuing and delivering you through Jesus Christ our Lord (Romans 7:25).

Snuggie Theology

“Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.” -Mark 8:35-

We are, by nature, comfort seekers, not cross bearers. We are the people of the La-Z-Boy, the country club, the day spa, and the Snuggie. Have you seen this product advertised? It’s a blanket with sleeves. At first I thought it was a ridiculous idea. But the more I saw the Snuggie, the more I wanted one. So, when my wife asked me what I wanted for my birthday, I was surprised by the words that came out of my mouth: “I want a Snuggie.” That’s a phrase you never plan on saying as a grown man. I was excited about a blanket with sleeves! When I got it, I put it on and thought, Wait a second, I already have one of these. This is just a bathrobe that you put on backwards.
Unfortunately, many churches have developed what I call Snuggie Theology. They try to make sure everyone is as comfortable as possible. They promise health & wealth to all who follow Jesus. They promise you a luxury car and a beautiful home. But contrast the image of the Snuggie with the image of the cross. One represents ease, the other symbolizes pain. One promises comfort, the other calls for sacrifice.
Yet, people buy into this Snuggie Theology — until their finances run out, their family falls apart, or their health takes a turn for the worse. That’s when they start to question God, suspecting that He isn’t holding up His end of the deal. When they expected to put on a comfortable Snuggie, they are not going to be happy when they are told to take up a cross.
For the Christ follower, the slogan is “Die Daily,” and the symbol is the cross. The point is the ultimate surrender of yourself — your dreams, your accomplishments, your comfort. You see, when you’re dead, you’re no longer concerned with your life — instead, you are free to live for Christ.

DENYING TODAY
What are the implications of dying daily for you personally? Can you think of anything (or anyone) you’ve lost for the sake of following Christ? When have you denied yourself in a way that actually made you uncomfortable?

A Slave of Jesus

“Simon Peter, a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ, to those who through the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ have received a faith as precious as ours: Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.”(2 Peter 1:1-2)

When Peter began writing his second letter, he didn’t introduce himself by saying, “Peter, a best friend of Jesus, present at the Mount of Transfiguration, featured preacher on the day of Pentecost.” Instead, he simply wrote, “Simon Peter, a servant” — or, translated more accurately, “a slave.” John, Timothy, and Jude all give themselves the same title. James didn’t begin his letter by saying, “James, the half brother of the Son of God.” He began by saying, “James, a slave of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ” (James 1:1). When Paul wrote to the church in Rome, he began by identifying himself as “a slave of Christ Jesus” (Romans 1:1).
Most of us grew up in homes where we were taught to study hard in school so we could get a good job and make lots of money and live in a big house, drive a nice car, and enjoy great vacations. When you ask a child what they want to be when they grow up, the answer generally reflects that influence. No kid ever says, “When I grow up, I want to be a slave.” In fact, most of us would find the idea of slavery offensive because of what occurred in past history. But that is what the Bible calls us to. The Bible teaches that the highest calling for you and for me is to be a slave to Jesus.
Sure, there are other ways we identify with Christ. He is a friend of sinners, a master teacher, and the head of His church. He is the promised Messiah, a conquering King, and the omnipotent God. We are lost sheep, and He is the Good Shepherd; we are sinners, and He is our Savior. But when we call Jesus “Lord,” we aren’t saying any of those things. We are saying, “He’s the master, and I am the slave.”
In fact, we can’t call Jesus “Lord” without declaring that we are His slaves. The two terms are inseparable. As crazy as it might seem to everyone else, as ridiculous as it might appear to those who don’t understand, we choose this life of slavery. Nobody will ever be forced into slavery to Jesus. Out of love, we willingly submit to His lordship.
When we fully surrender all that we have and all that we are to Him, we discover the strangest thing: It’s only by becoming a slave to Jesus that we can truly find freedom.

DENYING TODAY
Write down the words “slave” and “master.” What words and ideas come to mind for each of those roles? What are the slave’s responsibilities to the master? What are the master’s responsibilities to the slave? As you pray today, submit yourself again as a slave of Jesus, and thank Him for being a perfect, loving Master.

Parenting

“When a child is born into the world, God draws His hand near His heart, lends something of Himself to the parent, and says, ‘Keep it till I come.’ “(Henry Ward Beecher)

Charles Francis Adams, the 19th century political figure and diplomat, kept a diary. One day he entered: “Went fishing with my son today — a day wasted.” His son, Brook Adams, also kept a diary, which is still in existence. On that same day, Brook Adams, made this entry: “Went fishing today with my father — the most wonderful day of my life!”
Parenting is at the same time the most challenging and rewarding journey moms & dads ever embark on. The apostle Paul shares a few simple truths in Ephesians 6 to help guide you on your journey. (Read Ephesians 6:1-6)

3 Biblical Guidelines for Christian Parenting

Children are to honor & obey their parents.

Parents, do not treat your children harshly, but freely give them generous amounts of unconditional love.

Parents, seek God’s will and wisdom in raising your children. Teach them to love, serve, and obey God.

My Time With God

Preparation Time
Read Proverbs 22:6.

List the issues you are wrestling with in raising your children.
(Describe Why.)
Discipline –
Self-control –
Spiritual Growth –
Peer Relationships –
Self-esteem –
Other –

Waiting Time
During your waiting time, let God…

Love You.
“God, I feel Your love today, especially in the gift You have given me of my children.”

Search You.
“God, You have permission to reveal any area in which I need to improve as a parent.”

Show You.
“God, grant me wisdom to know how to train my children according to Your will.”

Confession Time
Read Psalm 103:13 and Proverbs 31:10, 28.

Confess the areas of your life as a parent (an example) that would not be pleasing to God:

Bible Time
We can never pray out of God’s will when we pray God’s Word.

… Read Deuteronomy 6:1-7 slowly a couple of times.
… Close your eyes & allow a main truth to surface in your heart.
… Pray the Scripture and allow God to minister to you.

Meditation Time
After praying the Scriptures, write down the thoughts that God has impressed upon your mind:

Intercession Time – Praying for Others
Begin this time with a prayer of blessing & thanksgiving for your children, and pray specifically for their needs.
Name Request

Petition Time – Praying for Yourself

How to petition God properly:
Talk to Him about the “little things”
Be honest with God
Pray “Thy will be done”
Prayer Requests

Application Time

The smallest obedient act is better than the greatest intention.

Q: What is the main thing God has impressed on me today?

Q: What am I going to do about it?

Steps to take in my obedience to God this week:

My Goal: To implement the above steps in the next 7 days.

Faith Time
Faith is our positive response to what God has said. Spend a few moments praying through your eyes of faith. Tell God the positive things you see happening because of His goodness!

Praise & Thanksgiving Time

Praise God by recognizing WHO HE IS!
Thank God by recognizing WHAT HE HAS DONE!

This week’s Memory Verse – Proverbs 22:6

This Week’s Time Alone With God
Monday – This Lesson

Tuesday – Write down the top 5 most important values you want to teach your children (such as honesty, positive attitude, kindness, etc.)

Wednesday – Spend extra time today praying WITH your children. (General time guideline – their age X 2 = number of minutes to pray)

Thursday – Write out what Philippians 2:3 means as a parent.

Friday – Review your memory verse.